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(For Men. About Women.) “SCHEDULED SACRIFICES” For men, accomplishing stuff means almost everything. So when our women, see us willing to sometimes sacrifice our schedules—just to spend time with them—it makes them feel treasured. (more…)

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Say You’re Scared (When You Are) Those who succeed at anything big in life, do so in spite of their fear.  Not because they had none. There’s always some kind of fear we are trying (with varying degrees of success) not to feel: fear...

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Do Something Nice for Someone Else (And Don’t Tell Anyone About It) While many of us frequently do nice things for others, we are almost certain to mention our acts of kindness to someone else, secretly seeking their approval. (more…)

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Lighten Up...Please! Do you believe that relationships and marriage should always be treated like “serious business” with no room for clowning and foolishness? If so, the rest of us look up to you with respect. (more…)

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“Take the Blame...(Maybe)” By far, one of a couple’s biggest time-wasters is arguing who's to blame for some dumb thing that happened between you.  Whatever it was - an ill-informed accusation, a broken promise, an insensitive response, a bad attitude,...

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“How to Manage ‘Mess’” In ANY relationship—romantic or platonic—there WILL be some conflict, sometimes. Conflict doesn’t necessarily mean we have a “problem.”  It does mean we have a “difference” (of opinions, priorities, or desired outcomes). (more…)

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How Do YOU Hide? It is not hard to understand why we love our “hiding places” in relationships. We’ve all used them ever the first time we let someone we loved see our true, unmasked selves and they quickly abruptly lost...

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Prioritizing Love Now, I know what you're thinking: If it is meant to be, it will just happen. I don't want to be (seem) desperate.  Love comes when you let go, when you are not looking.  (more…)

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