RECOMMENDED ARTICLE: 9 Lies Men Tell Themselves About Women

You’ve GOT to take your time and read every word of this article.  Over the years, single men (HONEST ones, anyway) have admitted these real-life self-deceptions to me. Now, Julie Ferwerda explains them.  This will be HUGE help for...

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How Sex Too Soon Screws Up Everything

Gwen had always taken pride in how she could keep her wits about her when the heat was on.  Even though it was only her second date with Marcus, she felt as if her sense of romance and passion...

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RECOMMENDED ARTICLE: How to Tell If He Loves You – Seven Signs That Say Yes

I’ve always said that, in the early stages, the dating process is a research project NOT a relationship.  You need to pay attention (with all 5 senses) to determine whether a man’s really “feeling” you or just hanging for...

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Is He Marriage Material? 6 Signs That Tell If His Is

Would you like to know if the guy you are dating is marriage material? Are you falling in love and want to have a future with him? There are signs that can help you see your potential mate through...

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How to Stop Being a Rescuer of “Needy’ Men

He’s been through hell and is “emotionally wounded.” It’s your job is to heal him. Right or wrong? “Shanece” and “Alphonso” met at the hospital where they were both employed. Alphonso was deeply scarred by his troubled childhood and was...

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How to Gain Men’s Respect

Everybody hates rejection—even the subtle forms which can crop up every day -  such as a broken promise, punishing silence, a sarcastic remark, or a promised phone call that never comes. All of these can feel like a slap in...

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Finding Mr. Right-for-You: Why You Should Go Out With Imperfect Men

Guest Post by Laura Doyle This excerpt is from the book The Surrendered Single and part of the Relationships Debate, "Does surrendering your idea of "Mr. Perfect" mean you're settling?" You might be tempted to say "no thanks" when you...

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7 Online Dating “Rules” to Follow – and 5 to Break

Do you follow The Rules for Online Dating by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider?  If so, you may be doing more harm than good. If not, you need to start. Here's a short guide to what rules you need...

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Are You Scared You’ll Get Hurt?

Everyone who has ever pursued a truly satisfying love relationship has taken a punch or two along the way. Rejection, one-way attraction, and bitter disappointments can make the road to a flourishing relationship a rocky one. We all hate rejection—even...

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Lies That Keep You From Dating—Myths and Beliefs that Block Finding Love

Guest Post by Tonja Weimer Are you aware that there are some cultural lies, deeply embedded in our thoughts, that keep us from finding love? Are you waiting to meet someone special? Would you like to fall in love? Are you...

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