RECOMMENDED ARTICLE: He Said-She Said: Praying for Specific Qualities in a Spouse

I admit it, at times I over-work phrases like, “We’ll see.” “Ask me later.” “I’ll think about and get back to you.” It’s because I hate feeling “pinned down” to specific, decisive answers. What if I want to change...

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Overcoming the “Need” to Win

I’m not at all proud of it, but I’m a descendant of many generations of folk who HATE to lose—especially if it’s argument. I used to dismiss it, by referring to myself as simply having a “naturally competitive...

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RECOMMENDED ARTICLE: How to Tell If He Loves You – Seven Signs That Say Yes

I’ve always said that, in the early stages, the dating process is a research project NOT a relationship.  You need to pay attention (with all 5 senses) to determine whether a man’s really “feeling” you or just hanging for...

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The Crutch You No Longer Need

What’s your “crutch” in relationships? All of us have one (or more). It’s any person or thing (e.g. friends or loved ones, bad habits, or material possessions, food, isolation, sex, a personality trait…etc., etc.) that we “over-depend” on to...

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Is He Marriage Material? 6 Signs That Tell If His Is

Would you like to know if the guy you are dating is marriage material? Are you falling in love and want to have a future with him? There are signs that can help you see your potential mate through...

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How to Stop Being a Rescuer of “Needy’ Men

He’s been through hell and is “emotionally wounded.” It’s your job is to heal him. Right or wrong? “Shanece” and “Alphonso” met at the hospital where they were both employed. Alphonso was deeply scarred by his troubled childhood and was...

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Finance and Romance: What’s the Right Mix?

If you’re in a relationship and you’ve got a financial need--shouldn’t your guy man-up and handle it?  Yes or no? While awaiting my flight at the ATL airport, the woman next to me (call her “Rachelle”) struck up a...

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Must You Forgive – Forever?

After more than twenty years of dispensing life advice on love and life, I’ve encountered a specific questions that, without fail, comes up over and over again.  Maybe you’ve wondered about this one too. Question: I care deeply about my...

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How to Gain Men’s Respect

Everybody hates rejection—even the subtle forms which can crop up every day -  such as a broken promise, punishing silence, a sarcastic remark, or a promised phone call that never comes. All of these can feel like a slap in...

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Get a Life (THEN Get a Love Life)!

Question: Dr. Ronn,: Sometimes I get tire and lose my motivation to keep trying to meet the right person and get married. But other times, I get so pumped up and focused on my marriage goal that I’m not really...

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