*Tip for Today*

UNCOMPLICATE YOURSELF You've got physical, psychological, spiritual and emotional needs, relational needs, and intellectual needs, among others. Your mate (or your “mate-on-the-way”) will meet many of those needs—but never ALL of them. So, don’t require them to. (more…)

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BEING FLEXIBLE Don’t be fooled: Marriage is NOT only about love and affection. It’s also about getting a whole bunch of stuff done. There is simply no way to see to everything--the bills, the children, the house, the car, the...

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*Tip for Today*

STOP IGNORNING YOURSELF Nobody but nobody is qualified to give you all the right answers about your future and the love life God has planned for you. Every now and then, you do best to listen to the advice of...

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Tip for Today

**DATE MORE THAN ONE PERSON** (Whenever Possible)* Go ahead and admit it! You’re convinced that only loose, scandalous folks go out with more than one person at a time. You assume that a few dates with someone kind of nice, somehow means...

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**HOW TO KILL A GREAT RELATIONSHIP (FAST)** Beware, in love and relationships, your fiercest enemy is self-centeredness. All of us—you included—have some. It’s that part of ourselves that wants what it wants, how it wants it, and when it...

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Here’s the Video I Promised You

A Step-by-Step Guide to Dating With Dignity – Without Wasting Time, Getting Discouraged, or Settling for Less Than You’re Worth! (more…)

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I just need to ask you…

January 24, 2012 Hi,  It's now 2012 and I've got to ask you... What is it about attempting to date and connect with the right mate, that makes so many incredible women eventually give up trying? And, to just “wait...

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*Tip For Today*

“Expect Respect” Everybody hates rejection—even the subtle forms which can crop up every day -  such as a broken promise, punishing silence, a sarcastic remark, or a promised phone call that never comes. (more…)

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*Tip For Today*

Say You’re Scared (When You Are) Those who succeed at anything big in life, do so in spite of their fear.  Not because they had none. There’s always some kind of fear we are trying (with varying degrees of success) not to feel: fear...

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*Tip For Today*

Do Something Nice for Someone Else (And Don’t Tell Anyone About It) While many of us frequently do nice things for others, we are almost certain to mention our acts of kindness to someone else, secretly seeking their approval. (more…)

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