Deciding whom you’ll let into your life is a BIG decision. The initial stage of the dating process is all about you doing the necessary “research and investigation.” Wondering if this connection is just for fun and games? Or does he have “keeper” qualities; the ones that matter most to you? You’ve got some deciding to do.
At the beginning, daters tend to notice only the best in each other. It’s normal to have a “temporary blindness” that filters out his defects. But if you desire a man who’s right for you over the long haul, you’ll have to look very closely—and know what you’re looking for.
Why? Because way before you need to know whether he’d make a great husband, you’ve got to determine “Is He Good Boyfriend Material?”