Wondering if you give men too much information (about past relationships, your hidden “issues,” your marital desires, etc.) too soon?

Men value a slower, steadier pace of disclosure. Skipping ahead is a shock to his system that makes him withdraw–even if he was attracted.

Allow for some reciprocal disclosures first. Until you’re hearing intimate details from him don’t you go there either. Pour out the real you drop by drop, YOUR restraint triggers HIS fascination.


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